Friday, March 9, 2012

Long Distance Relationship =)

Some ppl ever asked me wat do i think abt Long Distance Relationship. 
I said, Distance is nvr a matter in a r/ship but the beliefs of the person himself/herself.


I have a lot of frens are having very successful Long Distance Relationship over years (5-6 years) and they are still being together until today. However, many "Short Distance Relationship" juz simply failed in couple of months. Simultaneously, there are some vice versa cases. And thus, i firmly believe in what i have said -- Distance is nvr a matter in a r/ship but the beliefs of the person -- the attitudes towards their r/ship, the trusts, the maturity of handling problems, etc.

In my point of view, nth else wud be more important than "Trust" in maintaining a successful r/ship. Trust plays a very significant role in building / maintaining a r/ship. Therefore, if u can trust him/her who is living so damn far from u like thousands of miles away, tats really beautiful and nth else cud be unsolved obstacle in tis r/ship.

Undoubtedly, u cannot hug ur lover tight n gv him/her a goodnite kiss but jz a text saying sleep tight and sweet dream. However, u get to talk to ur lover and listen to him/her, hear him/her -- which i bet 85% of "Short Distance Relationship" couples fail this.


Think abt how amazing it gonna be when 2 of u are finally about to meet up for the perfect date / vacation! Prior to tat, u laugh more and fight less! arent these wonderful?? ;))  Long Distance Relationship is actually beautiful and yet, why do u let it to ruin ur r/ship? why u blame on the "Distance" when u lost the feelings towards someone?? "Distance" itself shouldnt be ur excuse of fading away ur feelings. Love isnt jz built on feelings but ur heart and sincerity. =)


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